Tuesday is ours.
We protect 6–10 PM every Tuesday for each other—with the occasional exception for holidays, birthdays, and the realities of five kids’ school and sports schedules.
Mark & Jen's Tuesday Date Night Journal
Real dinners, activities and nightcaps—planned, experienced and shared by Mark & Jen.
Every Tuesday, from six to ten, the same sitter walks in the door and we walk out of it. No carpool line, no permission slips, no negotiating who's on bath duty — just the two of us, for four hours, doing whatever we feel like doing. With five kids under thirteen, it's easy to let 'us' quietly disappear into the schedule. This is how we don't let that happen.
We protect 6–10 PM every Tuesday for each other—with the occasional exception for holidays, birthdays, and the realities of five kids’ school and sports schedules.
The sitters have changed since we got married, but our standing Tuesday date has stayed.
Mark plans one week. Jen plans the next. Half the fun is seeing what the other person chooses.
Our one rule is simple: never repeat a restaurant. Every Tuesday should bring a fresh table and a new story.
Our map stretches through Cedar Park, Lakeway, Georgetown and Austin—and once all the way to Dripping Springs when the experience was worth the drive.
With five kids in the house, it's easy to let a marriage run on whatever time is left over. This is our answer to that — four hours a week that belong only to us, to talk through whatever the week didn't leave room for, kids included.
Mark is a steak-and-bourbon enthusiast, co-founder of Crystal Practice Management, a former youth minister, and the other half of this Tuesday-night tradition.
Jen was born and raised in Louisiana and brings a serious love of crawfish, Cajun cooking, martinis, and gathering people around a table. She also founded a monthly cookbook club and is the author of Praying Through Infertility.
Together, Mark and Jen protect four hours every Tuesday to explore a new restaurant, cocktail spot, movie, or experience — and they never repeat a restaurant or movie.
Browse real dates by mood and occasion — from inexpensive nights out to once-in-a-while celebrations.
Follow along here for ideas, honest takes, and everywhere the Tuesday map has taken us so far.










New weeks get added here as we go — check back for the next one.
Know a spot we haven't tried? We're always looking for the next one — tell us where to go.